How to escape from the ocean of masturbation | FREEDOM FROM FORNICATION|
The desire for sex is one
of the devil's greatest weapons to trap many people in his kingdom. I have
struggled with masturbation before, so I know its danger and addiction. God
created sex for humankind and animals so they could reproduce.
Sexual intercourse
between a husband and wife is not evil because God created it for procreation
and intimacy. Sexual intercourse becomes evil when you practice it outside
marriage. Today, evil has advanced to the extent that people are discovering
subtle ways to engage in sexual immorality.
I have written some books and articles
on sexual purity and sexual immorality by God's grace. However, the revelation
keeps coming to me as I keep myself for the Lord. Today, people engage in phone
sex, sex toys, oral sex, group sex, prostitution, masturbation, and other sexual
sin and cover themselves under “human rights.”
In his wisdom, God
created sex for a mature man (husband) and woman (wife), but what do we see
these days? Sex has become so common to the extent that people below the age of
ten also engage in it.
When I embark on
evangelism in tertiary institutions, especially in their hostels, I often see
students engaging in sexual immorality. Maybe you are asking how did I know
students in the tertiary institutions involved in sexual sin?
When I enter the school
hostel and apartment to win souls for Christ Jesus, I usually see a male and
female student sleeping on the same bed with blankets covering their bodies.
These students do not feel ashamed of their actions because they see sexual
immorality as normal.
The ones that feel
ashamed and shy sometimes refuse to open the gate when I knock on their door. Fornication
is rampant in primary, junior, and senior high schools. Fornication has
numerous dangers, and it is your responsibility to guard yourself.
Today, we have several
countries legalizing gay and lesbian marriages under the guise of “human rights.”
If we don’t apply wisdom, the wrath of God will descend on the earth. The Holy
Spirit has revealed several
visions of some countries that allow abortion and sexual immorality.
The Holy Spirit has
revealed His judgments on these countries. The Spirit of God has revealed to me
in the spiritual realm the destruction coming on countries that have legalized
gay marriage, lesbian marriage, abortion, bestiality, and all forms of immoral
sexual practices.
Countries that have
legalized homosexuality, lesbianism, bestiality, oral sex, sex toys, and forms
of ungodly sexual intercourse must repent, or else the wrath of God will
descend on them. I write this article by the authority of the Holy Spirit.
If you check the article's
topic, you will realize that I titled it, how to escape from the ocean of
masturbation. I chose masturbation because that is one of the greatest battles
people face, especially the youth.
I have received several
phone calls from people asking how to come out of masturbation. Several people
ask how they can come out from masturbation in some of my social media groups.
As a Christian leader, I felt this question is important to the body of Christ.
I will briefly define masturbation
so you can understand it. Masturbation is a lustful force that drives a man or
woman to satisfy himself or herself sexually without the involvement of the
opposite sex.
As I stated at the
beginning of this article, I was once in the prison of masturbation, so I know
how it feels when you are struggling with masturbation. I have come out from the
prison of masturbation by God's grace.
I want to share with you
some of the principles I used to overcome masturbation. I will also share biblical
principles you can use to escape masturbation. I will further share some
dangers and causes of masturbation. Knowing these truths will help you walk in
victory.
Top nine reasons people masturbate
1.
Idleness
From my little
experience, I realize that one of the main reasons people masturbate is because
of idleness. When you are alone doing nothing, you will be tempted to do
something that goes against the Word of God.
If you live a life of no
purpose, you will be forced to follow whatever comes into your mind. Since the
flesh has lustful desires, your idleness will trigger it to satisfy itself in
that season. Meditate on Galatians 5:16-21
for a more profound revelation
2.
If you are not born again, you can be a slave of masturbation.
Another reason people
engage in masturbation is that they have not repented and surrendered their
lives to Christ Jesus. If you are not born again, the devil and his minions have
total control over you. Demons can manipulate you to masturbate if you have no
spiritual covering over your soul, spirit, and body.
3.
Watching porn and excessive romantic videos can lead to masturbation.
I have also realized that
people engage in masturbation because of what they feed on. When you constantly feed your mind with seductive videos, it arouses your sexual hormones. Some
spiritual forces also hide in sensual videos. The more you watch these videos,
these evil spirits can get access to you, leading to masturbation.
4.
Listening to ungodly secular music can trigger demons to control your soul and
body to masturbate.
Do you know that words
affect our soul? Just like food and water quenches our hunger, so do words
spoken out of the tongue affect our soul. How did you feel when someone said offensive
words to you?
You did not see those
words, but you felt them. That is how the lyrics from ungodly musicians affect
your soul. One thing I have realized is that evil thoughts generate evil
energies. Anytime you think evil, you authorize evil spirits to access your
environment and soul. You must know about life that every human being has a
spirit backing him in the spiritual realm.
If the musician you listen
to has an evil spirit backing him, his words can hunt you. If you keep hearing
those seductive words coming from his tongue, it opens a portal in the
spiritual and soulish realm. You create an ungodly soul tie with the person you
keep hearing. If the person carries demons of lust, the spirit of masturbation
will hunt you.
5.
Entering into a pre-mature relationship can lead to masturbation.
People masturbate because
they rush into a relationship. One thing you must know about a relationship is
that it affects you spiritually, emotionally, financially, socially,
psychologically, mentally, and physically. If you are not mature in these seven
sectors, you will be tempted to masturbate.
6.
Reading erotic books can lead to masturbation.
People masturbate because
they feed on illicit materials. If you are the type that loves reading
magazines showing the nakedness of women and men, you will be tempted to
masturbate on those materials. You must also know that reading affects your
mind, and your mind controls almost every organ of your body.
7.
Equally yoking with unbelievers can lead to masturbation.
As the Holy Bible states
that evil communication corrupts good manners (See 1 Corinthians 15:33). The
people you associate with have a great impact on your life. If those people are
full of lustful spirits, the evil spirits living in them will affect you.
The corrupt words you
keep hearing from those evil friends will damage your soul and open the portal
for evil spirits and lustful thoughts to bombard you. When this happens,
masturbation will dominate you.
8.
No fellowship with the Holy Spirit can lead to masturbation.
If you have no fellowship
with the Holy Spirit, you become vulnerable in the spiritual realm. If you
don’t have time to fast, pray, worship, and praise God, your spirit and soul
will be open to demonic attacks leading to masturbation.
9.
No time to study God’s Word (Holy Bible) can lead to masturbation.
The Word of God has a great
impact on our soul, spirit, and body (meditate on 1 Peter 2:2, Hebrews 4:12). If
you don’t feed on God's Word, your mind will be open to attacks of the enemy.
If you ignore the Word of God, you will think and behave like the unbelievers. If
the Word of God is absent in your spirit and soul, lustful thoughts will
bombard you leading to masturbation.
Top eight dangers of masturbation
1.
Masturbation can make you a slave to evil spirits.
Consistently engaging in
masturbation can open the portal for the marine spirits to dominate you. Marine
spirits are wicked spirits living in the water bodies. They are the spiritual
enforcement agents of immoral sexual activities. These evil spirits can enslave
you in their kingdom if you keep masturbating. They can hinder your progress if
you become their prisoner.
2.
Masturbation can create problems in your marriage.
Masturbation can weaken
your sexual organ. When this happens, you will struggle in the season of
marriage. I learned from my research that the three main problems in marriages
are sex, finance, and communication.
Since masturbation
weakens your sexual organ, your spouse may feel dissatisfied and cheated when
you don’t perform well in bed. It can lead to conflict and divorce in the long
run because you do not think about the consequences of masturbation.
3.
Masturbation can make you proud.
One of the things
masturbation does is that it makes you proud. You may not see pride because pride
can be invisible. You feel you don’t need anybody anymore because you
can satisfy yourself sexually.
If you are proud, God
will resist you. When God resists you, the marine kingdom will recruit you
making you an enslaved person in their kingdom. Meditate on James 4:6 for more profound
revelations.
4.
Masturbation opens the door for wicked demons to hijack God's blessings in
store for you.
When you become a slave
to masturbation, you remain under the curses of demons. Demons hate good things,
and they oppose God and His creation. Demons will hijack the blessings of God
in your life when you keep masturbating because masturbation gives them the
spiritual license to operate in your life. Meditate on Ephesians 6:10-18 for more profound revelations.
5.
Masturbation can weaken your spirit, soul, and body.
One thing masturbation
does is that it weakens you in the spirit, soul, and body. The semen that comes
out of your sexual organ is precious energy. The more you keep masturbating, the
more you waste that resources. Instead of you progressing in life, you will see
yourself moving backward because you are wasting the energy God has invested in
you.
6.
Masturbation can lead to demonic depression, suppression, and oppression.
Demons are satanic agents
that work with human beings and other wicked spiritual forces. As stated that
masturbation can make you a prisoner of demons. Demons can torment you with
sickness, fear, suicidal thoughts, hopelessness, anger, confusion, envy, pride, sorrow, and
negative feelings. Meditate on Proverbs
31:3 for more profound revelations.
7.
Masturbation can make you sin-conscious.
One thing masturbation
does in your life is that it can destroy your peace of mind. As soon as you
masturbate, it makes you sin-conscious. When you become sin conscious, your
faith in the Lord begins to weaken. When your faith in God begins to weaken,
your love for God diminishes. In the long run, you can backslide and become a
rebel in God’s kingdom and an asset in the devil’s kingdom.
8.
Masturbation is a doorway to self-destruction.
Do you know that you
destroy yourself when you constantly masturbate? Medically, you weaken your
sexual organ when you masturbate every day. Some people don’t mind masturbating
five times a day!
Some people masturbate to
the extent that blood comes from their sexual organs! You might think you are
releasing stress by masturbating, but you are destroying yourself! You may not
be able to function well when you marry if you keep masturbating!
Top eleven ways to overcome masturbation
1.
You must be born again
The master key to breaking
the chain of masturbation and escaping the ocean of masturbation is to repent
and confess to Christ Jesus as the Savior and Lord of your life. When Christ
Jesus comes into your heart, He grants you the spiritual power (Holy Spirit) to
overcome the desire and spirit of masturbation.
No power can subdue the
power of Christ Jesus. If you have not surrendered your life to Christ Jesus, I
encourage you to do it now because that is the first stage of deliverance. I
have written a prayer for you at the end of this article. Pray them from your
heart and follow the instructions after the prayers to receive total
deliverance.
2.
Build a consistent relationship and fellowship with the Holy Spirit
The Holy Spirit is a Spirit
of holiness. He cannot stay in an environment of evil. When you build a
consistent relationship and fellowship with the Holy Spirit, He occupies your
life with His presence, gifts, wisdom, power, and seeds (meditate on Galatians 5:22-23).
Pray more in tongues
because it builds you in the Spirit (meditate on 1 Corinthians 14:4). When you
pray in tongues, the Holy Spirit intercedes for you (meditate on Romans
8:26-27). No evil power can control you when the Holy Spirit makes your heart
His permanent home.
3.
Guard your invisible gates.
Job was a righteous man who
hated evil with all his heart, and he made a covenant that he would not
lustfully look at women twice (See Job 31:1). You must know about the eyes that
it is a gate to our mind, spiritual realm, and soulish realm.
Christ Jesus said that out
of the heart comes evil thoughts (See Mark 7:21-23). Decide to guard your eye
gate, ear gate, tongue gate, and the body's five senses because they can open
the portal for the spirit of lust to access you.
4.
Avoid idleness.
If you have nothing to do
in life, the demons will suggest things to you. You must know about the devil
that he begins the battle from our mind (meditate on 2 Corinthians 10:3-5). Do
something purposeful with your life because idleness triggers demons to
influence you to masturbate. When you are busy doing something purposeful, you
will not have the desire to masturbate.
5.
Disconnect with unrepentant unbelievers
We have two types of
unbelievers. Unbelievers who are possessed by evil spirits. Most often, these
are the hardened and unrepentant sinners. Then we have unbelievers who are not
possessed by evil spirits.
These unbelievers are not
hardened sinners but can be manipulated by evil spirits. Disengage from hardened
and unrepentant unbelievers because they can corrupt and make you a slave of
masturbation. Apply wisdom when walking with the second type of unbelievers
because they can corrupt and make you a slave of masturbation.
6.
Feed your soul with God's Word (Holy Bible)
The Word has the power to
transform our minds (meditate on Romans 12:1-2). As stated in point four that,
the battle begins from the mind; when you feed your soul with the Word of God,
it builds and restructures your philosophy (ideologies, mindset, beliefs, and
faith).
The Word of God can break
all the lustful thoughts in your soul and mold you into the stature of God. Live
by the principles of the Word so that a spiritual transformation can occur in
you. Decree the Word of God, declare the Word of God, profess the Word, and
pray the Word of God because there is power in God’s Word (Holy Bible).
7.
Occupy your mind with the physical and spiritual consequences of masturbation.
When you know the danger
of something, you will think twice when tempted to do it. Study the risks of
masturbation. You will think twice anytime you feel drawn to masturbate. Will
you jump into fire when you know that it can destroy you?
8.
Seek counseling from trusted people as led by the Holy Spirit.
Wisdom demands that you
seek counseling from godly, trusted, qualified counselors, psychiatrists,
psychotherapists, clinical psychologists, wise people, and spiritual leaders.
You might be surprised that these professionals can help you.
Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be wise in thy
latter end.
Proverbs
19:20
Maybe your problem might
not be spiritual. By seeking advice from trusted people, they can assist you in
breaking out of the prison of masturbation. One of the ways to know that
masturbation is a spiritual problem is that you will occasionally see yourself
having sex in dreams. You will dream
of seeing strange marine spirits. When you occasionally have bad dreams
about sex and marine spirits, it is an indication that you are struggling in
the spiritual realm.
9.
Seek deliverance if it is a spiritual problem.
When you detect that the
root cause of the masturbation is spiritual, seek deliverance from called and
anointed servants of God. You can also deliver yourself if you are a Christian believer. Speak the promises of God’s Word over your life
daily.
Get self-deliverance
books and manuals and follow the instructions in those books or search for
churches that have mastered spiritual deliverance and let them deliver you. Let
the Holy Spirit lead you before choosing deliverance churches because there are
some spiritual repercussions.
10.
Dominate your environment with the presence of the Holy Spirit.
Check out my series of articles for more profound
revelation. If you have an audio version of the Holy Bible, play them
consistently in your room. Listen to the inspired teachings of your spiritual
leader because it builds your faith and creates power in your spirit, soul, and
environment. When you build capacity in the Spirit and your environment,
masturbation will surrender to you.
11.
Marry
One of the ways to break masturbation is to get married. As Apostle Paul writes to the church that if you cannot control yourself, marry (see 1 Corinthians 7:8-9). Marriage has a powerful key that can deliver you from masturbation because you will get the chance to express yourself when sexual desires come. I am praying and searching for a partner. Do you have a partner?
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